Seeking Purpose? Here’s a Clue Where to Search
“The greatest tragedy is not death but life without purpose.” ―Myles Munroe
Until now, most folks around the world―and I am one of them―have been ensnared by a fairly predictable routine: Wake up. Go to work. Eat. Sleep… Wake up. Go to work. Eat. Sleep. Repeat…
Survival, it seems, has been the primary motivation for waking up in the morning. “But surely, there must be more purpose to my life than working to live and living to work?” you might have thought.
And now the wicked coronavirus disease outbreak that has brought a huge shift in our way of life. It is disrupting not just our routines, but also governments, business, learning, travel and the healthcare system. The world is at a standstill, with the pandemic becoming a huge stressor for individuals―young and old―and triggering anxieties, fears, uncertainties.
“What does the future hold for me and my lovedones?” one wonders, “And what’s the meaning of life, anyway?”
The Jewish professor of psychiatry and neurology, and Holocaust survivor, Dr. Viktor E. Frankl, offers great lessons on finding meaning in life.
Dr. Frankl endured a gruesome experience at Auschwitz and other Nazi concentration camps during World War II. In his bestselling book, Man’s Search for Meaning, Dr. Frankl describes the emotional 'death' he and other prisoners underwent within a few days of confinement. Witnessing the grim murders of loved ones, beaten and forced into cruel labour, cold and hungry, constantly fearing for their own lives, they had every reason to give up hope.
Soon, Dr. Frankl observed that their dreams and conversations were startingto centre solely on food. He also observed that the victims developed a ‘sheep mentality’during their long, difficult marches to work. To avoid being noticed by theguards and get punished for every tiny mistake, everyone did their best tocrowd into the centre―to be inconspicuous.
Later he noticed that he and other victims had developed a fear ofmaking decisions or taking initiative, preferring rather to allow fate to takeits course, as usually seemed to happen anyway. So when he eventually escaped fromthe death camp, he found it most difficult deciding what to do.
How do you rise above the unimaginable?
Paradoxically, he discovered that the kind of person one became in thebestial concentration camps was the result of an inner decision, rather than anoutward reality. Dr. Frankl found meaning in the midst of enormous difficultywhen he focused outside himself―with thoughts of hiswife, the beauty of nature, or in humour, for instance.
Suffering under the Nazi barbarity was extreme; something most peoplewill hopefully never experience. But Frankl’s observations are relevant ineveryone’s particular circumstances.
We must find our purpose in the midst of the difficulties, pain, anxieties, fears and uncertainties of everyday life. Circumstances such as brought by the coronavirus pandemic―financial ruin, health challenges, loss and grief―straddle through our lives. They are the reality of our world. But they do not take meaning away from our lives. If we wait for circumstances to be perfect before we find our purpose, we will deny ourselves the opportunity to live a truly meaningful life.
It is true that no one can tell us the purpose of our lives. We mustfind it for ourselves. But Dr. Frankl has given us an amazing clue, not on whatthe purpose is, but on where it is to be found―outsideourselves.
What draws you out of yourself and transcends your circumstances? Itmay point the way to your purpose in life. In the quietness of the currentmoment, make a choice to find it. Pursue it.
Happy Easter.
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